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Episode 23 – How to Forgive Someone Who Hurt You | Free To Forgive Challenge with Mey Deras

What if the person who hurt you never apologizes? Does forgiveness mean you have to reconcile with them?

In Episode 23 of the Gems of Knowledge Podcast, Windy Houser welcomes biblical counselor Mey Deras for an insightful conversation about forgiveness, healing, and finding freedom through Jesus Christ.

Mey shares practical biblical wisdom on processing pain, overcoming bitterness, and understanding why forgiveness doesn’t mean excusing someone’s actions or restoring a broken relationship. She also shares her personal testimony of reconnecting with her father after years of separation.

Discover how bringing our pain to God and allowing Him to change our hearts can lead us toward true freedom.

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Mey Deras

Mey Deras is a biblical counselor and Bible teacher with a Master’s degree in Biblical Counseling and over 15 years of ministry experience. Drawing from her own experiences with trauma, depression, and family challenges, she helps women find healing, freedom, and hope through Jesus Christ.

Through counseling, teaching, and her Spanish podcast, Los Detalles de Tu Vida, Mey encourages women to apply biblical truth to everyday struggles. She also serves alongside her husband, Pastor Haziel, and offers the Free to Forgive Challenge, helping women find freedom from past hurts through forgiveness.

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